My mother was always throwing important "things" (translation: treasures) away during spring and fall housecleaning. In my mind she clearly did not understand the significance of a saved stone or a dried, crumbling collection of pressed leaves stored in a shoe box. She kept what she felt important...dolls placed carefully in carriages...games neatly stored in their boxes on the proper shelves. Things of permanence can be saved, but rocks and leaves, after all, can "easily be replaced" was her argument. “And besides,” she said, "that stuff just makes a mess."
Maybe she was right. I still have the dolls, though stored away in boxes. Yes, they are a treasure I will someday hand down to my only granddaughter. But, for now, I remember the importance of a collection of pressed leaves and a saved stone, acknowledging the treasures stored these days by my grandchildren.
FOR A CHILD
(edited version of CHILDHOOD TREASURES)
Stones stored in a box
Crumbling leaves from yesteryear
What's become of them?
Unimportant stuff
Not difficult to replace
No use shedding tears.
Newly gathered stones
Leaves placed in a press with care
Remembering mom.
August 28, 2000
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